Dating a man that is going through a divorce
Well, if there’s only a few thousand of those jobs out there, there’s going to be a LOT of unemployment. That means he’s going to be a workaholic – that’s what made him a millionaire. Yes, attraction matters, but seriously, it’s a short term high.That is, unless someone compromises – and finds a lower paying job (a 7) that has much better benefits and quality of life.3) If the average guy is – logically – a 5, he usually thinks he’s an 8…and that he be dating a 10. There’s the rush of the chase, the thrill of victory, and the smugness of showing off your hot catch to all your friends – for a moment. He’s probably going to be arrogant and stubborn – that’s what happens when you’re a success at everything you do. And you’re merely overlooking his considerable flaws because of how hot he is. The most tempestuous relationship I ever had was also with the hottest woman I ever dated – so hot that she had to hide her profile on to stem the tide of emails. And because when she wasn’t acting crazy, she was actually a good girlfriend. You’re looking for a relationship to endure for 30 years.Such a divorce, therefore, is a spiritual failure and should prompt those involved to focus on the Lord and not on seeking to replace the one being divorced.The third situation in which dating during the divorce process might occur is that of a person who causes a divorce, i.e., the “guilty” party in a divorce.According to the Bible, marriage is a lifetime commitment. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Matthew 19:6). There are three situations in which dating during the divorce process might occur.
In either case, the innocent spouse is mostly likely in a state of emotional turmoil and vulnerability.
The second situation in which dating during the divorce process could occur is that of a person who divorces his/her spouse for non-biblical reasons.