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– blogged by @baetoven_ When you’re single, you don’t necessarily set out to date someone with children, especially as a young adult.
But what if you’ve found the perfect person who just so happens to have a kid?
The harder reality is when the kids profess to hate your guts -- as they often do -- and threaten your potential partner with threats like choosing "me/us or her/him." Other thwarting behavior can include a child perpetually pitting the two of you against each other, say by telling your sweetie you said he could have a third peanut butter cup (when you most certainly did not) or telling the other parent bad stories about you that are usually either flat-out not true, out of context, or just plain exaggerated. Larry Nadig, a family therapist in Glendale, California.
Three words of advice on how to handle these situations: communication, communication, communication. "If you know ahead of time this is going to be an obstacle, I suggest therapy.
Then again, your partner might want all the parenting responsibilities.
However, leaving you with no responsibility or authority to make decisions can be bad as well.
But kids also require attention and they come first (no matter what) so consider the fact that you might have limited time with your partner, and understand that spur of the moment activities may be off limits. Their ex is also going to be in the picture, so keep your jealousy in order.Sometimes they think you're trying to replace their own parent and that, out of loyalty, they've got to be chilly.These are totally normal emotions and can, with good communication and frequently therapy, be overcome.Wedding Ideas Etiquette" data-blog-content="false" data-content-tags="["e3ff7bbd-251d-473b-9e26-967d9e0f3a6a"]" data-singular-terms="["Wedding Etiquette"]" data-content-hub-id="" data-content-strategy-type="editorial" data-content-series="" data-article-num="1" data-og-title="Conversations to Have When You're Engaged to Someone With Kids" data-og-type="article" data-og-image="https:// data-og-description="Before taking that life-altering plunge to be married with children, here are some important things you need to think about." data-og-url="https:// data-canonical-url="https:// data-amphtml-url="https:// found the perfect spouse-to-be: sensitive, cute, and all about you -- you and his or her kids, that is.
That's right; your honey has children from a previous relationship, children that will be playing a very big role in your life if the two of you get married, especially if (yikes!In order to make it work, you've got to be flexible and sane enough to realize just how much your honey loves you -- no matter how much he or she also loves the kids.