Misconceptions The following are a couple of the more common misconceptions critics like to presume is meant by “Alpha Widow”.For the most part these are attempts to straw man the phenomenon with no real interest in how anyone came to understanding the dynamic.Most feel like they missed out on having made a good Hypergamous choice (or had it made for them by circumstance or social pressures).That missed opportunity leads some women to be widowed from the fantasy of an Alpha who would have been a better choice.In any of these instances what’s at issue is the fact that women’s mating strategy always moves them towards a “better-than-merited” SMV exchange and a psychological fixation on the man, or the type of man who best embodies it.It’s as if a woman’s is imprinted with the model of the optimal Hypergamous pairing (evolution-wise a life or death proposition) and believes that only in recreating it will that male again save her life. Social Enabling of the Alpha Ideal In 2019 it has never been easier for a woman to explore her reproductive options with an ever-increasing pool of potential Alphas from which to be ” the goal has always been to ensure provisioning and support – the Beta Bucks side of Hypergamy – in order to give women the impression that they have an indefinite window of time in which to find their optimal Alpha man.As such, a man who exceeds a woman’s SMV, and creates a benchmark of her ‘ had this man – one for whom she has genuine, organic desire for – but she cannot consolidate on him (i.e.
Sometimes the smallest brush with an ‘alpha’ male is enough to trigger the ‘what if?We didn’t just pull the idea out of our asses back then.We came to it because of the overwhelming number of married or LTR men who reported that their wife or girlfriend were pining for old lovers they thought were “, a woman’s intrinsic desire to balance the best quality sexual/reproductive male with the best provisioning/parentally invested male.[Guardian]Polyandry and polygamy, religiously authorized or mandatory, have not survived as legal institutions in the West. suggested other “consensual acts,” presumably, polygamy and polyandry, for example, were comparable to same-gender sex.
As today’s Purple Pill Manosphere tries to sort out what it wants to pick and pull from ideas the Red Pill has been debating for decades now it requires a lot of deliberate misdirection of the old concepts they struggle with. If you look at any of the exchanges I had with and still pined for him into her 30s or 40s after marriage.
If a woman’s is to be forced to reproduce with a lesser man, the next fear is to lose or miss out out on the opportunity to consolidate on monogamy with a high SMV man.