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More years went by and we got engaged; still, the situation lay silently between us. I met men professionally, and that was more or less it.
I knew that, deep down, he was still angry, we were both confused, and I was ashamed. As a call girl on Craigslist, I sold GFE, or “the girlfriend experience.” For the right price, I played the part of a partner, minus the commitment and responsibility.
That relationship taught me that “I don’t have a problem with what you used to do for money, just don’t ever talk about it” wasn’t good enough for me.
Similarly, besides getting paid, I got many of the benefits of a boyfriend— compliments, sex, someone to talk to — minus the emotional risk.
Relationships can be risky for anyone, but this is especially true for current and former sex workers.
Mike* had plenty of baggage of his own, beginning but not ending with an unshakeable drug habit.
“Don’t ask, don’t tell” was our policy, but as a result of tip-toeing around his drug use and my experience with sex work, our intimacy suffered.After our first date, he kissed me politely on my doorstep and I had the strange sensation of being filmed, as if I were an actress and we were both following the script of a very pleasant movie.